Review 2016 :: Christian Singles Tell It Like It Is ReviewOur Review Bottom Line:

  • GOOD: Number of members, allows you more control
  • BAD: Christian filters are not that great
  • TAKEAWAY: We’d like even better if it had more options for finding like-minded Christians.

When we conducted a survey before we began reviewing the best Christian dating sites, the results showed many of the people who tried online dating had used eHarmony or or both. Knowing that, it was important for us to make sure we included a review along with all of the others.

A reminder: When we review the best Christian dating sites, we do not mean we review only Christian dating sites exclusively. We review both Christian and non-Christian online dating sites because many Christians are using them as tools to find other single Christians. We analyze numerous factors, including and especially how easy it is to find other like-minded Christians on the site.

So, about that review?
We like it.
For more details, read on…

We like it almost as much as we like eHarmony. We could like it more, but there’s one big reason we don’t. First, let’s start with the three things we like best about the site: Review :: Pros

It’s the oldest site around and one of the biggest. If you’re in a city or a rural area, finding matches in your vicinity should not be as difficult as it would be for smaller, newer sites like Marry Well and Christian Crush. You’ll still probably have to expand your search area if you’re in a rural area, but you’ll probably still have more options than using a lesser-known site.

Control allows you access to their entire membership database. For those who dislike eHarmony’s system of measuring out daily matches with little other option, then Match certainly solves that problem. Any biographical information written must be approved by Customer Care, so the true Control Freaks might not like that, but those of us who don’t want to read inappropriate material are fans of that safety net. Overall, you have significantly more control in your quest to find a date while using Match, despite having them approve your profile information.

Sometimes there are so many options on a site that it becomes difficult to figure it all out. has a number of options, but the site still remains user-friendly and all of the bells and whistles are clearly explained. Also, the site doesn’t leave you on your own in your search if you want some assistance. They offer daily matches, Match Me (places you in the daily matches of someone you really like), mutual matches (based on profile information, you’re looking for someone like him/her and he/she is looking for someone like you), reverse matches (he/she may not meet your match criteria, but you meet his/hers), and other options such as favorites, email, winks or chatting. For the more adventurous, even has local meet-ups and live events in select cities, as well as trips. It may take a little minute to figure out what all of the Match options are and how they work, but the site is still user-friendly despite providing lots of options. Review :: Cons

The issue that bugged us the most was the Match Christian filter. It’s just more difficult to narrow down matches to those who are like-minded Christians. Calling oneself a “Christian” can mean many things to many people. Granted, the site offers many search options that are helpful in narrowing the field. They let you mark if faith is a deal breaker for you, and in the custom search options, they allow you three choices in the “Christian” category: Christian/Catholic, Christian/Protestant, and Christian/Other.

eHarmony takes things one step further and allows you to choose from a list of denominations and other sites, such as Christian Café, allow you to get even more specific and get into church involvement levels.

You also can add keywords to your searches, so limiting profiles to ones that include words like “Christian” or other church-y terms could possibly help narrow down your results. (This also helps if you’re searching for matches who love coffee or the Green Bay Packers or travel, too. Just an FYI.)

One tip for finding other like-minded Christians on Match is to search for those who identify themselves as “Christian-Protestant” or “Christian-Other” and then scroll down on each profile to see what religious preferences they are looking for in a match. If they don’t have anything marked at all or if they are open to Buddhists, Hindu, Christian-LDS/Mormons, insert religion of your choice here, then you’ll have a pretty good gauge on where they stand in matters of faith. Yes, it’s possibly they forgot to get specific in that section of their profile, but it’s definitely a good place to start. Even if you mark your faith as a “dealbreaker” in your initial set-up, Match will still match you with people who are not believers, so this is just one more way to help discern where a person stands in their relationship with Christ.

We know people who have found other like-minded Christians on Match, so it’s far from impossible. All we’re saying is it might be slightly more difficult to wade through lots of profiles to find the kind of Christian matches you might be looking for. Review :: How Much Money Are We Talking About Here?

While not significant, Match is slightly cheaper than eHarmony. If you catch them on their initial promo rates when you sign up, you can get one month for around $35. Like most other online dating sites, the more months you commit to, the better deal you’re going to get. For instance, you can get a 6-month or a year’s subscription for around $18/month.

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[Pro Tip: If you’re considering more than a 1-month subscription of Match, consider the 6-month option. Match has their 6-month guarantee where you can get your money back if you don’t meet someone within the first 6 months of membership. But be sure and check out our post outlining the fine print of this deal before you try it. They make you jump through a few hoops, but it’s a sweet deal to fall back on if you do it right.] Review :: Our Recommendation

Overall, when it comes to top Christian dating sites, we can’t help but find to be one of the best on the market today. We still think eHarmony beats match when it comes to finding Christian matches online; however, if you’ve tried eHarmony and don’t like it, Match is a good alternative.

It’s FREE to look at your matches by following this link to, so what do you have to lose? Or if you’re ready to sign-up, here’s the link for 20% Off of It will open in a new window, and you can use this page to let us help walk you through the set-up process. Review :: How to Set-up a Match Account

You’ll need your credit card and a valid email address to set-up your account.

Check out our video tutorial for a quick overview or keep reading below for step-by-step instructions:

[Pro Tip: Some people like to create a new email account for their online dating subscriptions because it keeps you from being buried under the tidal wave of emails that are forthcoming. Sites will communicate with you about new matches, when someone reaches out to you, as well as send you coupons and deals for future subscriptions. It’s fine to keep everything under the email account you already have, but if you can’t seem to get through the emails you have already, putting them under a separate “online dating only” account is a nice option.]

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While not as extensive as the eHarmony set-up process, the Match process will still take you about 15-20 minutes because you have to come up with a screen name. That alone takes some people longer than the eHarmony personality inventory. (Funny? Serious? Too cheesy? Too Jesus-y?) At some point you’ll have to just go with the best name you’ve got and trust the Lord that you won’t miss the love of your life because you chose RangersFan393479274 over CowboysFan29383493.

Set Up Your Profile
You’ll go through a series of simple questions to let Match know more about you and who you are looking for. It’ll range from zip code radius to education level to ethnicity to favorite local hotspots.

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In this section, you’ll also answer questions about your beliefs. You’ll be able to choose from a list of religious denominations. For Christian, you’ll have the choice of Christian/Catholic, Christian/LDS, Christian/Protestant, Christian/Other.

[Pro Tip: “LDS” isn’t really Christian. It stands for “Latter-Day Saints.” LDS=Mormon Church. You remember the childhood game of “Which of these things doesn’t belong here?” If you’re a Christian looking for another Christian, LDS doesn’t belong in this list.]

[Another Pro Tip: A lot of Christians don’t use the term “Protestant” anymore, so some may shy away from choosing that option, even though it means anything that’s not Catholic. So you’ll probably find a lot of Christians who identify themselves as Christian/Protestant or Christian/Other. Thanks, Match, for making things complicated.]

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You’ll also be given the opportunity to write in a short answer box and explain more about your beliefs. Since Match doesn’t give you a ton of opportunities to share about your faith, this box is important for you to spell out what your relationship with Christ means to you. You can’t assume that simply marking “Christian” will net the kind of matches you’re looking for.

Determine Your Match’s Characteristics
After you’ve filled in all the questions about yourself—and you should fill them in because an incomplete profile only complicates matters—you’ll have the chance to identify the things you’re looking for in a match.

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You’ll check boxes for things like body type, education level, language spoken, etc. You’ll also get to list certain things as “deal breakers.” This lets Match know what is of utmost importance to you, things like religion, ethnicity, relationship status, drinking, smoking, have kids/want kids, etc.

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Catch People’s Attention
Remember how hard it was to come up with a screen name? Ugh. It can be just as hard to come up with a headline and a short description of who you are and what you’re looking for. But you can do it. Stressing out over being unique isn’t worth the time and energy. With millions of users, there’s no way someone hasn’t said what you’re going to say. Just be yourself.

After you upload some photos, you’re pretty much good to go. You can connect Match to your Facebook account to make the photo uploading even easier, too. Match does review all photos and text before they appear on your profile—which is kinda nice to know you’re not going to see or read anything too scandalous while you’re on there—so you won’t see it immediately.

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They tell you it can take up to 24 hours to approve your information, but when we did ours, it took less than 10 minutes. However, time of day and site traffic has a lot to do with how quickly their reviewers can get to it. The good news is that while you’re waiting on approval, you can still peruse the site and your matches.

[Pro Tip: Every time you update your profile or text, it will go through the approval process, so maybe plan ahead of time what you want to say in a 200-word paragraph about what you’re looking for in a match. That way you won’t have to wait on their reviewers every time.]

Pay the People
If you want full use of the site, you’re going to have to pay them next. You can see your matches’ photos, unlike an unpaid eHarmony subscription, but you can’t really take any action—or see any action someone has taken toward you—if you don’t pay them. Review :: How to Close Your Match Account When You’ve Found the Love of Your Life

In the event that you’ve found your Ruth/Boaz on Match, you’ll need to close your account. Or, sometimes you just need to walk away for a little minute. Ok, we get it.

Either way, if you’ve paid Match for a subscription, you need to know that they don’t do refunds. You can use your account until your subscription runs out.

[Pro Tip: Before your subscription runs out or before you cancel your unpaid subscription, delete your photos from your account. Once you cancel it, you won’t be able to go in and delete them, and it’s just a safety measure to take them down first.]

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To close your account, go to the wheel at the top right corner by your profile picture and go to your Account Settings. Click on Change/Cancel Membership. You’ll be asked if you want to cancel your membership and remove your profile. Once you do so, you will no longer be able to access your profile unless you reactivate your account.

The good news is that if you decide to reactivate, all of your answers are saved for you. The bad news is Match will only keep your profile for one year. If you decide to go back after a year, you’ll need to start all over with the set-up process.

Have you used the site? What do you think about it? Love it, hate it, indifferent? Share your thoughts with us!

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  • Lettie131

    I am from London England and use
    They all have their drawbacks but as long as you know how to create a purposeful profile, and you know how to question people and explain your faith, know what things you will and will not compromise and have a clear understanding of the purpose, responsibility and commitment of marriage, it is possible to use any heterosexual dating website.

  • One way to help weed out the what Christian means is by what you put in your profile.  If you talk some about Jesus it will do two things.  1. It will keep some of the wrong people away (make sure you want to do that – ha and 2. It will help you show up when the right people key word search etc.

  • katiebug

    I am a Christian (Protestant) and met my future husband (Catholic) after 3 months on Match! I have to say there were a lot more creepers and non-Christians on the site–at least that was my impression–but hey, if you find the right one, it’s worth it. As long as you have patience and remember what you’re looking for, I’d recommend it to anyone.

  • I do not recommend I signed up for a one month subscription thinking that it would just expire after one-month because they had a one-month, three-month and six-month option. This was the second time I had tried it after 2 years. The matches were not good and I keep receiving pop- ups. The expiration date came and went and they automatically renewed my subscription. Two days after my “expiration” date, I discovered my credit card had been charged for another month. It was not clear that my subscription would be renewed automatically. They wouldn’t credit me the amount. This site is just a money maker under the guise of playing on the sentiments of lonely people. In a way, it was my fault for signing and not trusting Jesus in this area of my life.

  • Becky may have a large number of matches but they have been accused of credit card fraud and selling customers information to the public. Subscribe at your own risk.

  • ryanmarcantonio

    I had the guarantee and still didn’t go out Once with anyone..

  • tinkerbellj2388 is horrible I had the subscription for 6 days, I had signed up for 12 months but changed my mind and wanted to cancel. They refuse to cancel my account and give me a refund for unused days. This is just bad business especially in the 6 days the matches they sent me were nothing i was looking for.

  • Kendra

    Christian mingle is discriminatory against black women,
    I was allowed to browse the site freely for weeks until, I posted a picture of myself. Suddenly, I was suspended. Are there no beautiful black women in America!!!!???
    Who would now want to go through sending my id and a payment to a site that is clearly racist, now I see why so few black women are on that site. WE ARE NOT ALL NIGERIAN!!!! and they
    could of handled my case with some human decency by sending a email requesting the verification and not slapping me with a suspension. I know when I’ve been singled out.

    Plus the matching system does not even take your preferences into consideration. gets my vote

  • RachelAN

    I think Match is good overall but their filters kind of stink when it comes to matching. I have men with kids marked as a “deal breaker” yet 80% of my matches are men with children. It’s frustrating that such an important filter is basically ignored.