what our writers are sharing

• "There is always this message that marriage is hard and we single folks just don’t get how great we have it. That’s just not true..."

  

  Justin Campbell

• "I’m 35, never been married, and childless. Childless. Sometimes it feels as only a mild ache that can be brushed aside, but other times it flares with an intensity that threatens to undo me..."

  

  Erin Steelman

• "His barriers around my sexual behavior are there for my good—my safety, my flourishing, my joy. He is not withholding from me something that would benefit my life, but withholding me from something that would destroy it..."

  

  Matt Moore

• "The Lord has assured me time and time again that I can do this single life and live it well, and He will provide people who will walk alongside me..."

  Jessica Bufkin

• "It’s ok to admit you’re intimidated by a relationship or making a move---or that you may not want a relationship right now as much as you thought..."

  

  Ben Morgan