{This week we’re featuring several questions we tackle in our new eBook, When Will I Get Married? (and 7 Other Questions that Plague Singles). Sign up in the box below to become a SingleRoots email subscriber and download your free copy today!}

 

The reason you have consumer debt is pretty simple...

I remember learning in high school about the craftiness of the former slave owners in the post-Civil War era. Yes, with the stroke of Abraham Lincoln’s pen, slaves were set free but there was a problem.

A big problem.

The slaves didn’t know how to be free, and the former slave owners took advantage of this immediately.

Slaves became free by law, but former slaves needed a job and really only had one skill to offer so former slave owners hired them back at a low wage. The former slave owners opened up a “General Store” for his “new employees” to shop. The former slaves didn’t make enough money, so the friendly former slave owner let them buy their basic goods like food and clothing on “credit.” [Read more...]

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  • When Will I Get Married?
  • What If I Don’t Like the Singles Ministry at My Church?
  • Why Won’t You Ask Her Out?
  • What’s the Secret to Being Content with My Singleness?
  • Should I Tell My Girlfriend I Struggle with Pornography?
  • What’s the Single Most Destructive Thing You Can Do with Your Singleness?
  • What’s Debt Got to Do With It?
  • What If I Don’t Want to Get Married?

Chances are, if you’re single, you’ve struggled with several, if not all, of these questions. We have too. They’re not simple questions with one-paragraph answers. They’re the kind of questions that are recurring and nag against our contentment. Some keep us company in the dark nights when our minds begin to wander down the roads of “what if,” “what could’ve been,” and “why me.” [Read more...]

Familiarity is an easy way to build a relationship.

Many years ago, after college and while trying to figure out what I wanted to be when I grew up, I delivered pizzas. It was a decent job, I left with cash every night, and I spent most of my time on the road listening to good music. But there was one part I couldn’t stand. It wasn’t the boss; I was old school friends with the managers. It wasn’t the low employment status; I liked my work better than most of the other people I knew.

It was being disrespected right to my face by customers.

I am not talking about 2-pie customers who didn’t tip. I’m not talking about the 6 drunk people on the porch who were overly suspicious that I did something to the pizza. I’m not even talking about the folks who lived on gravel roads and couldn’t give good directions to the sink if they were standing in the kitchen. I’m talking about 20, 30 or 50 pizza orders from churches, schools and other organizations. Further, it wasn’t that they ordered that many. [Read more...]

We often fall into the same traps of temptation year after year...

Growth.

Outside of that second helping of pumpkin pie in November, I think we all go through periods where we realize we haven’t done much in any area of life. We fall into the same traps of temptation year after year. For me, prayerfully entering into fasting from parts of my life, not simply food, has revealed some powerful truths. [Read more...]

Our friend, PT, over at PT Money graciously invited us to guest post on his blog. Ryan was the obvious choice for this guest posting stint, as he is the resident authority on all things money-related around here at SingleRoots.

And, just so you know, Ryan and Kori are getting married tomorrow, yet they somehow found time in their crazy, wedding planning schedule to write for SingleRoots. Do they love us or what? As a wedding gift, we’re kicking them off the SingleRoots team.

We’re so excited for them and can’t wait to see how the Lord grows them in their love for each other and for the Lord. Congratulations, Ryan and Kori! Much love to you both!

Pay Off Debt: 4 Reasons to Be Debt Free Before You Get Married

In one day, I will be tying the knot.

There are lots of reasons I’m madly in love with my future bride, and there are lots of reasons I’m crazy about our relationship.

One really cool thing I’m excited about is that we’re both coming into the marriage debt free.

Now this may not sound really romantic, but in this day and age, I think it’s dang sexy. But we’ll get to that later.

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