• The Day My Debt Caught Up to Me

    You never forget the crappy days. As much as you want to, you can't. I used to see this as a curse … [Read More]

    The Day My Debt Caught Up to Me
  • Have You Been Pursued?

    “We love, because He first loved us.” 1 John 4.19 This is one of the simplest, yet most profound … [Read More]

    Have You Been Pursued?
  • Singled Out for Being Single

    Picture it: Dozens of us are masterfully working the dance floor. I soak up the energy of all the … [Read More]

    Singled Out for Being Single
  • But What If I End Up Dying Alone?

    Over the past summer I got a chance to become part of the pharmacy team in the Emergency Room at my … [Read More]

    But What If I End Up Dying Alone?
  • 13 Things I’ve Learned in My Thirties

    When we turned 33, my friend and I called it our “Jesus Year” or our “Year of Fulfillment.” We were … [Read More]

    13 Things I’ve Learned in My Thirties

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Bittersweet Milestones

Bittersweet Milestones :: Not How I Thought My Life Would Turn Out

My life this year has alternated between bittersweet and wonderful moments. Friends came and went, one job vanished and a new one turned up, and new hobbies took over my free time. I’m surrounded by fantastic people and am incredibly blessed in many things. It’s just not how I saw it turning out for me. The most bittersweet thing so far has been buying a house. While walking through … [Read More...]

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Is there a Christian Mingle Free Trial?

Is there a Christian Mingle Free Trial?

Is there such a thing as a Christian Mingle free trial? Does it even exist? Or is it elusive like the chupacabra? People speak of such things, but has anyone actually ever seen one? It seems the latter is true. Many online dating sites offer free memberships, but if you read the fine print, you can also follow a strict set of guidelines … [Read More...]

Bloggers You Should Know :: Matt Moore

Bloggers You Should Know :: Matt Moore

Matt holds the record as the writer of one of our most popular posts this year. His post “Celibacy, Same-Sex Attraction, and Abundant Life” was filled with honesty and vulnerability, yet held firm to the truths found in the Word—the same reasons we love Matt’s blog. Matt’s voice is so important to the ever-growing, often-volatile … [Read More...]

When You Think You're Failing at Relationships

3 Things to Remember When You Think You’re Failing at Relationships

Some people seem to have the cards fall their way all of the time. I am not one of those people. My plans go awry so often that I grow suspicious when they actually work. A result of this is I’ve grown accustomed to moving back from a failed effort and reevaluating—be it pursuing a job, relationship, or one measly hit in a baseball … [Read More...]


Alone, Yet Not Lonely

Alone, Yet Not Lonely

I was facing one of the most difficult seasons of my life. And it didn’t help that I felt so alone in it. So there I was—an American, on the other side of the world (China), pouring out my heart to a friend and fellow missionary (from Australia)—hoping for some wisdom and clarity. She … [Read More...]

Spiritual Growth

My World Stood Still

My World Stood Still, but Everyone Else’s Kept Going (and How They Prayed Me Through It)

In October, I had a conversation with my brother about how our immediate family had never really known tragedy. It was one of those conversations you almost hate to speak out loud and you ridiculously express concern that you might be asking for bad things to happen. Kinda like the notion of not … [Read More...]



Why Freaking Out Doesn’t Help (Yet I Keep Doing It)

“When word reached the king of Egypt that the Israelites had fled, Pharaoh and his officials changed their minds. ‘What have we done, letting all those Israelite slaves get away?’” Exodus 14:5 As the story goes, afterwards, Pharaoh gathered 600 chariots, chased Moses and the Israelites into a … [Read More...]

Church & Ministry

James 1:27's "to visit" doesn't mean sitting around chatting on your grandma's porch.

Are You Living a James 1:27 Lifestyle?

“Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.” James 1:27 When I think of the word “visit” I am flooded with childhood memories. I recall sitting on my granny’s porch swing with my … [Read More...]



YNAB Review :: The Not-So-Sexy First Step to Get Your Finances in Order

What is “YNAB” and why am I reviewing it? Well, because it has changed the course of my life, and I think you should know about it. But we’ll get to that in a minute. A while back, I discussed the best gift you can give your future spouse. You hear so much about keeping yourself sexually pure … [Read More...]