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Bittersweet Milestones :: Not How I Thought My Life Would Turn Out

My life this year has alternated between bittersweet and wonderful moments. Friends came and went, one job vanished and a new one turned up, and new hobbies took over my free time. I’m surrounded by fantastic people and am incredibly blessed in many things. It’s just not how I saw it turning out for me. The most bittersweet thing so far has been buying a house. While walking through … [Read More...]

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Is there such a thing as a Christian Mingle free trial? Does it even exist? Or is it elusive like the chupacabra? People speak of such things, but has anyone actually ever seen one? It seems the latter is true. Many online dating sites offer free memberships, but if you read the fine print, you can also follow a strict set of guidelines … [Read More...]

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