• Singled Out for Being Single

    Picture it: Dozens of us are masterfully working the dance floor. I soak up the energy of all the wedding guests around me, ecstatic that we have no problem celebrating the bride and groom’s eternal commitment to each other by collectively agreeing that yes, it is fun to stay at the Y.M.C.A. We bring sexy… [Read more]

    Singled Out for Being Single
  • Let’s Talk About Porn

    My first sample of pornographic material appeared while I was browsing late night TV the summer after my 8th grade year. What was happening in front of me was shocking, yet I kept changing the channel and then coming back to it, unable to fight the allure of discovering the true form of a woman… [Read more]

    Let’s Talk About Porn
  • Are You a “No” Girl?

    It happens a lot here at this place. I order one thing and it’s never quite what I imagined. For instance, chicken apple panini doesn’t look a thing like chicken or apples and the spinach salad is always more fruit than spinach. And I’m not even picky, I promise. Last night the tears were threatening… [Read more]

    Are You a “No” Girl?
  • 13 Things I’ve Learned in My Thirties

    When we turned 33, my friend and I called it our “Jesus Year” or our “Year of Fulfillment.” We were joking, of course, but it did give us perspective about our lives in the light of what Jesus accomplished in His short time on Earth. When another group of friends started turning 35, they created… [Read more]

    13 Things I’ve Learned in My Thirties
  • Intentionally Single?

    “Intentionally single” is probably not something most singles are trying to be. I know this because when I was single, I wasn’t trying to remain single intentionally. I wanted to get married! But in all my wanting and dreaming, marriage was not going to happen in my timing.  Some things in life you just can’t hurry up.… [Read more]

    Intentionally Single?

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